Husband can't afford - Page 2

eldragon · 06-04-2007, 01:17 PM

Shouldn't this have been a discussion before they got married?

I mean, what if she was overweight before they got married, but now that they've tied the knot, he decides he wants her to be thinner?

Or what if they discussed not having children and he said he didn't want any, and they got married, but now she's changed her mind?

Important things should be discussed before you get married. If her husband is an underachiever, or just not into making money, maybe that's his core personality. She married him for what he is, who he is, and can't expect to change him just because they got married.

Neither of them will be happy with the results.

06-04-2007, 01:17 PM	#11 (permalink)
eldragon Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 22	Re: Husband can't afford Shouldn't this have been a discussion before they got married? I mean, what if she was overweight before they got married, but now that they've tied the knot, he decides he wants her to be thinner? Or what if they discussed not having children and he said he didn't want any, and they got married, but now she's changed her mind? Important things should be discussed before you get married. If her husband is an underachiever, or just not into making money, maybe that's his core personality. She married him for what he is, who he is, and can't expect to change him just because they got married. Neither of them will be happy with the results.