sex before marriage....

sanchita · 11-23-2005, 01:02 AM

do you think sex before marriage is right or wrong....why? do you think if you have intercourse before marriage will it effect your marriage?

Alexa · 11-23-2005, 01:21 AM

What do you think ?

sanchita · 11-23-2005, 01:24 AM

personally i dont belive it is wrong..i think if you do it before it is ok...and in some cases your spouse will respect you more...but also if you wait until you are married and you marry as a virgen then i think you will wonder with time what it would be like to be with someone else..and that will lead to cheating..then maybe divorce....

Leto · 11-23-2005, 07:55 AM

And why do you care about other people sex life ?

Do what you want with yours and don't be judgemental on other people.

Not the finest first post I've ever seen.

sanchita · 11-24-2005, 12:45 AM

first of all i am not judgemental towards anyone...i did it...i also had a child before getting married...however there are so many people now a days that say it is ok...so when a young person comes up to me and asks me...i tell them to do what they think is right....i just wanted to get some other opinons on the subject....

Leto · 11-24-2005, 11:03 AM

Coming as a newbie on a board, asking this type of question out of the blue and non being judgemental, who do you think you're fooling ?

sanchita · 11-24-2005, 05:36 PM

first of all i am not trying to fool anyone...second of all it was just a simple question..that you did not have to respond to...and if you are offended in any way i appologize...i was just curious on how diffrent people respond to the same topic....

Leto · 11-24-2005, 05:43 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sanchita

-.second of all it was just a simple question..that you did not have to respond to...

In case you didn't notice the titles, it's Alexa's and I's job to ensure no trouble happens on this board. Usually people asking that type of question out of the blue on the board they don't know anybody and where they didn't even took the time to get introduced proprely are in for trouble.
If it's not your case, I'm sorry, predecents from other posters may have made us overreact.

And to answer to your question : other people sex life is none of my business as long as it's consensual and of legal age. And my own sex life is none of your business.

sanchita · 11-24-2005, 06:04 PM

like i said before i appologize.....i agree it is none of my business however i did not ask for anyone to tell me about thier personal life...i just asked a simple question about what people thought about it.....i am a counsler for many younger people and sometimes i dont really know how to respond to them...i dont want to say it is right or wrong...i just wanted to get opinions of others that would maybe help them more than i......

Leto · 11-24-2005, 06:12 PM

If they're legit and feel ready for it, as long as they're sure to be safe (i.e. fully protected against STI and unwanted pregnancy), tell them to do as their heart (or guts) feels.

11-23-2005, 01:02 AM	#1 (permalink)
sanchita Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 6	sex before marriage.... do you think sex before marriage is right or wrong....why? do you think if you have intercourse before marriage will it effect your marriage?

11-23-2005, 01:21 AM	#2 (permalink)
Alexa Alien investigator Join Date: Oct 2004 Posts: 546	Re: sex before marriage.... What do you think ?

11-23-2005, 01:24 AM	#3 (permalink)
sanchita Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 6	Re: sex before marriage.... personally i dont belive it is wrong..i think if you do it before it is ok...and in some cases your spouse will respect you more...but also if you wait until you are married and you marry as a virgen then i think you will wonder with time what it would be like to be with someone else..and that will lead to cheating..then maybe divorce....

11-23-2005, 07:55 AM	#4 (permalink)
Leto Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 704	Re: sex before marriage.... And why do you care about other people sex life ? Do what you want with yours and don't be judgemental on other people. Not the finest first post I've ever seen.

11-24-2005, 12:45 AM	#5 (permalink)
sanchita Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 6	Re: sex before marriage.... first of all i am not judgemental towards anyone...i did it...i also had a child before getting married...however there are so many people now a days that say it is ok...so when a young person comes up to me and asks me...i tell them to do what they think is right....i just wanted to get some other opinons on the subject....

11-24-2005, 11:03 AM	#6 (permalink)
Leto Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 704	Re: sex before marriage.... Coming as a newbie on a board, asking this type of question out of the blue and non being judgemental, who do you think you're fooling ?

11-24-2005, 05:36 PM	#7 (permalink)
sanchita Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 6	Re: sex before marriage.... first of all i am not trying to fool anyone...second of all it was just a simple question..that you did not have to respond to...and if you are offended in any way i appologize...i was just curious on how diffrent people respond to the same topic....

11-24-2005, 06:04 PM	#9 (permalink)
sanchita Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 6	Re: sex before marriage.... like i said before i appologize.....i agree it is none of my business however i did not ask for anyone to tell me about thier personal life...i just asked a simple question about what people thought about it.....i am a counsler for many younger people and sometimes i dont really know how to respond to them...i dont want to say it is right or wrong...i just wanted to get opinions of others that would maybe help them more than i......

11-24-2005, 06:12 PM	#10 (permalink)
Leto Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 704	Re: sex before marriage.... If they're legit and feel ready for it, as long as they're sure to be safe (i.e. fully protected against STI and unwanted pregnancy), tell them to do as their heart (or guts) feels.